Category: TMI Tuesday

Troppe Informazioni Martedì numero Cento e ottanta

1. Have you ever sent or recieved a sext message?

Not that I can recall. There have certainly been a few “Luv U’s” etc. but no sexting. I just see the whole thing as rather pointless.

2. Have you ever made or recieved a booty call?

Back in the day yes I did. Been many years since.

3. Have you ever added or edited a word/entry to Wikipedia or Urban Dictionary or any other online reference?

Yes I’ve edited a Wikipedia entry or two, and I did submit a word to Urban Dictionary.

4. At what age did you have your first consensual sexual experience?

I was 13. I’ve seen people that were older, and even younger so I figure I’m right there in the middle. And my parents and grandparents thought I was such an innocent kid. They didn’t know the least of it.

5. What has been the greatest age difference between you a consensual sexual partner?

You know, I really don’t know. Lets say 8 years. How’s that?

Bonus (as in optional): Why do you blog?

That’s an easy one, it allows me to exorcise my demons. For if I couldn’t blog about the lies and straw-man arguments I hear regarding gay rights and marriage equality, I’d probably have to strangle a priest, rabbi or imam or three.

Now playing: Curtis Mayfield – Freddie’s Dead (Theme from ‘Superfly’) [Single Mix]
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Troppe Informazioni Martedì numero uno e settanta per cento Nove (TMI #179)

1. Ever Googled a date, a potential date or an ex?

My dating life ended before Google even came about. In fact I think it ended right around the time Alta Vista came into being. However I have googled past dates to see what they’re up to.

2. Do you gossip?

Not really. I’ll certainly listen to gossip but there is just too much real information out there to be discovered than to pass on gossip.

3. How many people do you completely trust?

Just two. Keyron is one of them, and my friend Ky the other.

4. Have you ever had sex in car?

Yes as a matter of fact I have. Non moving though. I don’t trust myself to drive when in ecstasy.

5. What is your best flirting technique: innuendo, telling a dirty joke, talking about sex life, or physical contact?

I’d have to say talking about my sex life. But then I’ve been told I’m naturally flirty so I really don’t know what my technique happens to be.

Bonus (as in optional): How many times is the most you have ever had sex in a 24 hour period?

Eleven. Yes I know, I was a freak of nature when I was younger. Are we talking total number of discrete incidents, or total number of orgasms?

I was known for marathon sessions when I was in my early to late 20’s. Probably has lots to do with that testosterone that surges through an Italian-American guy.

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Troppe Informazioni Martedì numero Cento e Settanta Otto (TMI #178)

Didn’t I just do one of these? I’m time tripping a bit, as evidenced by the time stamp on this post.

1. Don’t tell us what it is, but do you have a sexual secret you have never told anyone?

Nope. No secrets here.

2. Do you have a nonsexual secret you have never told anyone?

You mean where did I bury the bodies? Nope.

3. Did you ever tell someone a secret only to have them spill it? What were the repercussions?

Nobody has ever done that. Sure my father had to tell the whole family I was gay but the reality of that was he actually did me a big favor by doing that.

But otherwise, nobody has ever ratted me out.

4. Did you ever spill a secret someone told you? What were the repercussions?

Never have, never will which makes answering the next question easy.

5. Tell us a secret someone told you, however along ago, that you’ve never told. (You can disguise name or details)

If I told you I’d have to shoot you.

Guess it means I’m the soul of discretion.

BTW, I note the TMI’s are hit or miss lately. I think it’s just running its course.

Troppe Informazioni Martedì numero e un centinaio di settantasette (TMI #177)

1. Are you pro-marriage? Why or why not?

I’m a little confused on this. When it says pro marriage I automatically translate that to marriage equality meaning gay people can marry other gay people.

I fully support marriage equality.

2. Have you ever invented or thought you invented a sexual position?

No, I’m more one to re-write the Bible as evidenced by a prior post than to re-write the Karma-Sutra.

3. Do you like to be tied up? Always or sometimes?

Occasionally. The loss of control is quite interesting.

4. Do you consider online cybering adultery?

No I do not. Flying fingers aren’t adultery.

5. Do you prefer masturbation over real sex?

They’re about equal in my view of things. But then for guys the ultimate goal is to pop a nut so either/or.

6. Do you want sex more times a day than your partner?

Nope. It happens when it happens.

7. Do you get offended when you partner openly flirts with others or are you okay with it?

I’ve never seen Keyron actively flirt with someone. But then I have a filter for that sort of thing so I probably have but just didn’t pay attention to it at the time.

8. Do you think you’re flirty by nature?

I can be. It’s worse when I’m drunk and part of the reason I stopped smoking weed when I was a teen.

TMI #176 — It just isn’t worth translation anymore

1. Is there a sexual act/position/practice that you were sure in advance you would hate (or never try) and then discovered to your surprise you loved?

Early on anal just didn’t appeal to me, top or bottom. I’m definitely more top n that respect and don’t mind as I’ve said before, being balls deep in a cute ass.

2. Is there a sexual act/position/practice that proved a lot less interesting in practice than you thought it would be beforehand?

Not that I can recall.

3. How do you let your significant other know you’re in the mood? How do you let a new person in your life know?

Oh that’s easy. I’m of the Marvin Gaye school of sexual interest. “Wake up!”

4. How does your significant other let you know he/she is in the mood?

Starts kissing me like crazy.

5. Is there one that got away – a sexual opportunity you didn’t realise was one at the time, or weren’t ready for and regret missing ever since?

Nah, I was always pretty adventurous. Did pass up a few though and good thing. I have this sixth sense when it comes to that. And I’m always right though I’m 16 years out of practice in that respect. And no regrets.

Troppe informazioni Martedì numero Cento e Settanta cinque (TMI #175)

1. What do find is the most exciting part of a new sexual encounter?

The thrill of the chase. Seriously. I think this is common in all men, gay or straight.

2. Do you have “a most exciting part of a sexual encounter” with a usual partner?

The lead in, foreplay, whatever you call it.

3. How open and honest are you about your life with someone you just met?

I’m pretty guarded with strangers. So I tightly control information until I get more comfortable.

4. How open and honest are you about your life with someone you work with?

Pretty open. It’s not worth hiding info about your life at work. Though in some cases I have to tightly control who knows what. Couple of jobs ago everyone in my unit knew I was gay except one person who we all call the Shrew.

She speculated about it plenty of times though. And because of that I marginalized her.

5. How open and honest are you about your life with a casual acquaintance who lives in your neighborhood (or the parent a your child’s friend or…)?

Pretty good with neighbors actually. I guess it’s that rootedness kicking in.

Bonus (as in optional): Define a “normal” as in “normal relationship” or “normal sex life”.

Everything is normal when it comes to sexuality when you realize that sexuality exists along a continuum. A normal relationship is also a pretty broad thing.

TMI Tuesday #174

This one doesn’t even deserve the title being translated into Italian.

1. What is your favorite charity? Do you you give your time or just money to that charity?

For the most part anything that has to do with literacy projects. If you can read, you can learn.

2. Describe your bed. What side do you sleep on?

A King size full motion water bed. Yes I know, it’s so 70’s but I can’t sleep on anything else. I generally sleep on the right side. And heated – so winter nights aren’t that cold.

3. How important is a partners kissing ability?

Fairly high up the scale. Kiss me the right way and you’ll find out.

4. Have you ever “taken advantage” of a person under the influence of alcohol? Have you ever been “taken advantage” of while under the influence of alcohol?

Negative on both accounts. I prefer being fully under my faculties when it comes to that kind of thing.

5. Ever tried to replay the famous scene from From Here to Eternity? How was it?

Nope, don’t do movie scene re-enactments.

Bonus (as in optional): What kind of birth control do you use?

Birth control? Condoms. But then I don’t have to worry about knocking some woman up since I’m gay.

BTW, I can tell these questions were written by a woman. They fall completely flat with me.

And is it my imagination or have TMI’s been getting very lame these past couple of months? Almost too tame.

Troppe Informazioni Martedì numero Cento e Settanta Due (TMI #172)

1. When you sleep with someone, how much or how little contact do you like to have?

Full on contact is cool. That’s how I sleep best.

2. What do you think there is a appropriate amount of time for a divorce parent to date before introducing the kids to the “new” “special” person in their life?

Yes, about 50 years. I think this has a lot to do with the actions of my father. When my mom died he waited a bit over a year to re-marry. Don’t get me wrong, Peggy was a wonderful woman. I just wasn’t ready to move on at that point.

Dad on the other hand cannot be alone. I find that funny since I value my alone time like you wouldn’t believe.

3. Which ONE do you wish you had more of in bed… romance, experimentation or foreplay?

Experimentation. Plenty of romance and foreplay but it just gets a bit dull sometimes.

4. What do you thinks makes a kiss great?

Good contact is one of the paramaters, but a good kiss is when both you and the person you’re kissing/is kissing you tune out the world for that kiss.

5. Describe your sex life in two words.

Fucking Awesome.

Bonus (as in optional): Do you remember a time when you were having sex that you smile or even laugh about now? Do tell….

The lost condom episode. Someone slipped the condom on inside out. Ooops.

troppe informazioni Martedì numero Cento Settanta Uno – film edizione (TMI #171)

1. What was the last movie you saw in a theater?

It’s been so long that I honestly cannot remember. With the advent of Netflix, net video, etc. I’ve honestly not stepped into a theater in many years. I think the last time I was in one it was $10 per ticket if that gives any indication. Totally forgettable movie too.

I guess if they really want to get me into a theater they’d stop re-hashing old movies. You can’t tell me there isn’t a good idea left in Hollywood. E.g. Stranger in a Strange Land. That would be a rockin’ good movie if it followed the book at all.

2. What is your favorite movie theater snack?

Popcorn but again even that is mass produced crap now. I’m often of the opinion that it isn’t the lawyers we ought to put up against the wall, it’s the MBA’s.

3. Have you ever snuck in ‘outside’ food into a theater?

Not so much snuck. I’ve carried 500ml bottles of drinks in and nobody has said a word. That’s the key to getting away with breaking a ‘rule’. Act as though you know you have the right to do what you’re doing.

4. Have you ever made out in a theater?

Who hasn’t? I’m sort of discrete about it of course but if you’re making out you obviously aren’t there to see the movie.

5. What is the ‘farthest’ you have gone in a theater?

All the way down to the front row.

Bonus (as in optional): What is one of your favorite movie sex scene?

Are we talking everyday movies or porn? I find very few sex scenes notable in the former.

This had to be one of the lamer TMI’s.

Troppe informazioni Martedì numero Cento e Settanta (TMI #170)

1. Have you ever dated/married purely for money?

Not at all. I’m bright enough to make my own way thank you.

2. What is your type?

Cute with some meat on the bone. Skinny little twinks never did a thing for me. I need someone who doesn’t mind getting a little rough.

3. What is the best sex game you have ever played?

Never really recall having played a sex game. Does that make me odd?

4. Have you ever given or received an orgasm from a person whose last name you did not know?

Yes and no. I’m a pretty good investigator. I can pretty much have their full birth name, DOB, SSN, credit report etc. in record time. But sometimes I just didn’t bother to go through the whole process.

5. Have you ever masturbated in front of a sexual partner?

Yes I have. And it was mutual. And back in the day I could do target practice with ejaculation. Seriously, lots of it and long distance.

Bonus (as in optional):At what age do you think men and women reach their sexual peak? Do you think you have hit yours yet?

It’s said men reach their peak at 19, I say that’s bullshit. Men start reaching their peak at around 25, and then start losing it at about 60.

Ditto for women.

Of course after 60 I have no idea what goes on and I’m 16 years out from that age. Yikes!